In perhaps his best-known work, "Swimming to Cambodia," Spalding Gray, a monologist, described his obsession to have a "perfect moment."* Gray divulged that he had a tendency to fantasize about the life not lived -- the possibilities rather than the one that he was actually living. As Gray indicated: "What the monologues were doing therapeutically was reminding me that I did something else. And that story is constantly grounding me and saying 'But you have made these cho

I found myself on a website site today that describes the compilation of work of ten European, American and African NGOs that are devoted...